Kristin Cavallari: Cutting Father Out of Her Life Was ‘Best Decision’
In a recent interview with People, reality TV star Kristin Cavallari discussed the decision to cut her father out of her life, calling it ‘the best decision ever made.’ Cavallari, 38, revealed that the emotional weight lifted from her life was significant, and she emphasized that she no longer misses her father. She explained that the decision came after her father crossed boundaries with her children and refused to apologize, which she felt was a critical turning point.
Cavallari also reflected on her complex relationship with her father, describing it as having ‘so many layers’ and ‘disgusting.’ She mentioned that she never felt comfortable around her father as a child, as he was constantly putting her down. However, she also noted that he would sometimes put her on a pedestal, which she now realizes was a form of manipulation.
In the interview, Cavallari drew parallels between her relationship with her father and her past marriage to former NFL quarterback Jay Cutler. She suggested that she was repeating patterns from her childhood without addressing the underlying issues. She described her marriage as a reflection of her relationship with her father, which she eventually recognized and worked through following their divorce.
Cavallari first opened up about her decision to cut her father out of her life in December 2023 during an appearance on her podcast, ‘Let’s Be Honest,’ where she spoke with psychologist Dr. Sherrie Campbell. She discussed her struggles with narcissism and how she felt her father was a narcissist without realizing it until she was an adult. She shared these insights on a December 2024 episode of Bunnie Xo’s podcast, ‘Dumb Blonde,’ where she further elaborated on the complexities of her relationship with her father.
Despite the challenges, Cavallari remains resolute in her decision, calling it the ‘last thing I needed to do in my healing journey.’ She emphasized that her experience has helped her break free from harmful patterns and focus on her personal growth. Cavallari also highlighted that she has taken time since her divorce to work on herself, ensuring she does not repeat the same mistakes in the future.