Actor Ben Stiller, known for his work in films like ‘Zoolander’ and ‘Tropic Thunder,’ has opened up about his regretful parenting decisions in his upcoming documentary titled ‘Stiller & Meara: Nothing Is Lost.’ The film explores his relationship with his comedian parents, Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara, as well as his own experiences with work and family life. In an interview with People magazine, Stiller confessed to cutting his daughter, Ella, out of the 2013 film ‘Secret Life of Walter Mitty,’ calling it the ‘worst decision’ of his life. He acknowledged that his obsession with perfectionism in work and his own shortcomings as a parent led to this regretful choice. Stiller also reflected on the strained relationship with his children, particularly stating that he ‘did not get it’ during their early years, believing that working hard to provide for the family would suffice. However, he realized that the bonds formed with children during their youth are crucial, and this realization has left a lasting impact on his approach to parenting.
Stiller, who has a son named Quinn, also discussed the complexities of his relationship with his children, highlighting that while he values their bond, past mistakes have left a mark. His marriage to actress Christine Taylor, with whom he separated in 2017 after 17 years of wedlock, has also played a role in these challenges. The couple, however, rekindled their relationship during the pandemic, when they were forced to quarantine together. Taylor noted that this time allowed them to reconnect, stating that their family remained united despite their separation. Stiller expressed that their temporary separation had a strain on their relationship with the children, but he believes that it ultimately strengthened their bond. He emphasized that their family is not without its struggles, but they have learned to navigate the complexities of balancing work and family life.
The documentary, which debuted in select theaters in October and will premiere on Apple TV+ in November, also delves into Stiller’s upbringing with a set of parents who were often on the road, leading to a lack of consistent presence in their children’s lives. Stiller acknowledged that this absence has influenced his own approach to parenting, prompting him to reflect on how the experiences of his parents have shaped his understanding of his own life. He expressed that learning about his parents as individuals, rather than just as parents, has given him a new perspective, leading to greater empathy for their struggles. Through the documentary, Stiller aims to share his personal journey, highlighting the challenges and growth that come with raising children and maintaining a lasting marriage. His openness about these issues has resonated with fans, offering a glimpse into the private life of a public figure navigating the complexities of family and career.