The modern dating landscape is increasingly complex, with many singles finding it hard to form deep connections. Allie Hoffman, the founder of ‘The Feels,’ is addressing these challenges with an innovative approach that combines guided conversations and physical interactions. Since launching in 2022, ‘The Feels’ has gained attention for its structured method of fostering emotional and physical engagement between participants. The program, which ranges from $90 to $200 per person depending on the level of interaction, has been attracting interest for its unique approach to modern dating.
At an event held on October 22, Hoffman shared her perspective on the state of dating today, citing the impact of capitalism, technology, and pop culture on personal relationships. She argues that these macro-level forces have created a situation where interpersonal skills have diminished, and relationships have become transactional. The Feels aims to counteract this by promoting authentic connections, encouraging participants to engage in deeper conversations and physical contact to build emotional trust.
While the program does not aim to help singles find a lifelong partner, it focuses on teaching emotional vulnerability and new tools for forming meaningful relationships. Hoffman is interested in how people can use these experiences to build more genuine interactions beyond the dating scene. Her vision is to help individuals develop the skills to engage with others in a more authentic and emotionally fulfilling way, moving away from the superficiality often associated with modern dating.