Natalie Portman, the Oscar-winning actress and former spouse of French choreographer Benjamin Millepied, has found solace in the private and discreet lifestyle that Paris offers, especially after her recent divorce. The ‘Black Swan’ star, who had previously moved back to Los Angeles for a time, has opted to remain in Paris with her two children, Aleph, 13, and Amalia, 8. This decision comes after the couple finalized their divorce following 11 years of marriage, and she has spoken candidly about how the city’s culture provides her with a much-needed sense of privacy and personal space.
In a recent interview with Net-a-Porter, Portman expressed her appreciation for the French way of life, stating that the people there are incredibly friendly, though they require more mindful social interactions. She remarked, “I think we have an assumption that Western cultures are all the same… it’s not true: it’s extremely specific here; and the culture is very different in both deep and surface ways.” This observation highlights her growing affection for the cultural subtleties of Paris, which she feels offer a refreshing contrast to the more open and direct social norms of Los Angeles.
Portman’s return to Paris was initially prompted by her husband’s job at the Paris Opera Ballet, where he was hired in 2014. However, the couple briefly returned to Los Angeles in 2016, where she noted a more friendly and open atmosphere compared to the more reserved French culture. Yet, after her divorce, she chose to remain in Paris for the sake of her children’s upbringing and the privacy it provides. In her interview, she detailed how the social interactions in Paris are more structured, with individuals often greeting each other with a formal ‘bonjour’ and a cheek-to-cheek kiss, while also expressing gratitude for being hosted.
The actress also expressed her love for the cultural richness of Paris, highlighting the city’s numerous exhibitions, concerts, and social gatherings that keep her engaged. She described how even in the colder months, Paris continues to offer a vibrant and stimulating environment for her. “Even when it’s cold and gray, there’s always some incredible exhibit or concert or dinner party or writers in town; something fascinating and stimulating happening… and the frequent vacations are so clutch!” she said, indicating her deep appreciation for the city’s offerings beyond just its cultural attractions.
Portman’s choice to remain in Paris reflects a broader trend among high-profile individuals seeking a more private and culturally rich environment for their families. Her comments also serve as a reminder of the significant cultural differences that exist within Western societies, which can have a profound impact on personal and social interactions. As she continues to navigate her life post-divorce, Portman’s experiences in Paris provide a unique insight into the value of cultural immersion and the importance of personal space in modern life.